I lived in my apartment for 10 days. Then I broke the lease and now I am back home ... where I belong ...? He has promised to change. He went to see a counselor. He said he'll talk to his doctor. He's started talking about his issues.
But he says he wants things from me, too. A list of things. And they're weird, household things, like mini blinds and laundry. I can't compare 'remember to open and close the mini blinds' to 'remember to not hurt your wife.' It feels off. All I want from him is to not hurt me. Other than that, we can work it out. So this can maybe work. I can try. If I try then maybe he'll want it to work too.